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		<title>VII &#8211; Colour me Red, White. Ah heck, Blue too.</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[Just take a look at the TV schedule for this weekend. Media imperialism refers to the one-way, non-reciprocal flow of information and cultural influence in the international media environment, which embodies cultural domination of the &#8216;Third World&#8217; by the West [Wang, 1997, p.15].  It was argued that the expansion of US media economy and culture [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=thetonguegetssharper.wordpress.com&amp;blog=9363941&amp;post=176&amp;subd=thetonguegetssharper&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p style="text-align:center;"><strong><em><a href="http://thetonguegetssharper.files.wordpress.com/2009/10/52.jpg"><img title="52" src="http://thetonguegetssharper.files.wordpress.com/2009/10/52.jpg?w=202&#038;h=210" alt="52" width="202" height="210" /></a><a href="http://thetonguegetssharper.files.wordpress.com/2009/10/53.jpg"><img title="53" src="http://thetonguegetssharper.files.wordpress.com/2009/10/53.jpg?w=198&#038;h=210" alt="53" width="198" height="210" /></a><a href="http://thetonguegetssharper.files.wordpress.com/2009/10/54.jpg"><img title="54" src="http://thetonguegetssharper.files.wordpress.com/2009/10/54.jpg?w=179&#038;h=210" alt="54" width="179" height="210" /></a></em></strong></p>
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<p style="text-align:center;"><strong><em>Just take a look at the TV schedule for this weekend.</em></strong></p>
<p style="text-align:left;"><strong>Media imperialism</strong> refers to the one-way, non-reciprocal flow of information and cultural influence in the international media environment, which embodies cultural domination of the &#8216;Third World&#8217; by the West [Wang, 1997, p.15].  It was argued that the expansion of US media economy and culture to other countries resulted in the imposition of US values onto other cultures and the displacement of local tradition. Such a trend is especially rapid with the proliferation of modern communications technologies [Wang, 1997, p.16].</p>
<p style="text-align:left;"><em>World&#8217;s Most Extreme Homes. Simply Delicioso. The Doctors. The Rachael Ray Show. Air Buddies. So You Think You Can Dance. Ocean&#8217;s Thirteen.</em></p>
<p style="text-align:left;">What do they all have in common? They&#8217;re all &#8220;imported&#8221; shows! Just looking across the board, how many locally produced shows are on? Other than the usual prime time news and a single Sports@SG, our media have been <strong>monopolised</strong> by external influences and its <strong>dominance</strong>, especially from the <span style="text-decoration:underline;">US</span>.</p>
<p style="text-align:center;"><a href="http://fangedfem.deviantart.com/art/america-the-blind-53631856"><img class="aligncenter" title="america the blind by fangedfem" src="http://thetonguegetssharper.files.wordpress.com/2009/10/america_the_blind__by_fangedfem.jpg?w=300&#038;h=237" alt="america the blind by fangedfem" width="300" height="237" /></a></p>
<p style="text-align:left;">However, the government is concerned about how these American products may affect our own Singaporean culture. Singapore is a multicultural society, which has resulted in a mass media that have to represent a variety of ethnic cultures and languages, already balancing on such a thin line between the myriad of cultures, another external influence may result in conflicts in the society.</p>
<p style="text-align:left;"><em>Why this cause for concern?</em></p>
<p style="text-align:left;"><em>Marshall McLuhan</em> developed the theory that <em>the medium is the message</em>. He focused on how we perceive media messages by looking not only at the content of the message itself, but at how the message was delivered, or its form. For media, people often only notice the content of the media (a speech on radio, a comedy on television, etc.), but not the media that transmit the messages. McLuhan believed that the <strong>medium</strong> itself influences how we perceive that medium&#8217;s messages. And our government belief that whatever is shown on television will be taken up entirely by the audience through the <strong>hypodermic needle</strong> (<em><strong>Powerful Effects Theory</strong></em>: B<em>elieve that the audience is </em><strong>passive, </strong>and that the media is injecting <span style="text-decoration:underline;">information</span> and <span style="text-decoration:underline;">rules</span> about desired <strong>behaviour</strong> into a mass audience who would react in the <strong>appropriate</strong> manner), hence this fear of it being <em>culturally dangerous</em>. Thus, the government have set up barriers to filter and censor what comes on our televisions.</p>
<p style="text-align:left;"><em>In a capitalistic country such as Singapore, what is the real purpose of the media in the society? Is its role to inform and for enjoyment, or is there a hidden underlying agenda such as to make a profit? Why the shrinking number of media providers through mergers and cross ownership? Is the liberalisation of Singapore&#8217;s media the result of relaxing morality or again, for economic reasons?</em></p>
<p style="text-align:left;"><span style="color:#000080;">And with that, I bid you all farewell, I hope you have enjoyed this blog the last couple of weeks. Tis the end. <strong>thetonguegetssharper</strong>.</span></p>
<p style="text-align:left;">Sources:</p>
<p style="text-align:left;">Channel 5: MediaCorp TV ~ <a href="http://5.mediacorptv.sg/default.aspx">http://5.mediacorptv.sg/default.aspx</a></p>
<p style="text-align:left;">Research Paper: Film &amp; Television In Singapore &#8211; Economic Development &amp; Media Policies ~ <a href="http://www.geocities.com/adeylim/research.html">http://www.geocities.com/adeylim/research.html</a></p>
<p style="text-align:left;">Wang, J (1997) &#8216;Global Media and Cultural Change&#8217;. Media Asia. Vol 24 No 1</p>
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		<title>VI &#8211; Hi-Low. Sorry, sir. We only have Magnolia.</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 16 Oct 2009 16:08:58 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Edward Hall stated that all cultures can be viewed in relation to one another through which the styles they communicate. Cultures such as those of the Germans or Swiss, they usually communicate primarily through explicit statements (both in text/speech). They are categorised as Low Context (LC) cultures. Whereas, in other cultures such as the Chinese or [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=thetonguegetssharper.wordpress.com&amp;blog=9363941&amp;post=130&amp;subd=thetonguegetssharper&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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<p style="text-align:center;">Edward Hall stated that all cultures can be viewed in relation to one another through which the styles they communicate.</p>
<p>Cultures such as those of the Germans or Swiss, they usually communicate primarily through explicit statements (both in text/speech). They are categorised as <strong>Low Context (LC) cultures</strong>.</p>
<p>Whereas, in other cultures such as the Chinese or Indians, their messages usually include other communication cues such as body language and silence (non-verbal). <strong>High Context (HC)</strong> communication involves implying a message through what is not said. This includes situation, behavior and non-verbal cues as integral parts of the communicated message.</p>
<p>Hence, across cultures, websites are designed <em>differently</em> to <span style="text-decoration:underline;">communicate their messages most efficiently across to their target groups</span>.</p>
<p><em>Food!</em></p>
<h2><span style="text-decoration:underline;">McDonald’s Schweiz (Switzerland) vs. McDonald’s India</span></h2>
<p><a href="http://thetonguegetssharper.files.wordpress.com/2009/10/2.jpg"><img class="alignnone size-medium wp-image-132" title="Swiss Mac Front Page" src="http://thetonguegetssharper.files.wordpress.com/2009/10/2.jpg?w=300&#038;h=188" alt="Swiss Mac Front Page" width="300" height="188" /></a> vs. <a href="http://thetonguegetssharper.files.wordpress.com/2009/10/untitled.jpg"><img class="alignnone size-medium wp-image-133" title="India Mac Front Page" src="http://thetonguegetssharper.files.wordpress.com/2009/10/untitled.jpg?w=300&#038;h=236" alt="India Mac Front Page" width="300" height="236" /></a></p>
<p><em>McRosti. Mmm.</em></p>
<p>From the start, there&#8217;s already differences between the site designs. In the Low Context (LC) website, animations are kept relatively simple and are used only to emphasize the active links or to <strong>draw attention</strong> to certain areas. Whereas for the High Context (HC) site, the animation is centred on images of <strong>people</strong> (Ronald Mcdonald). <em>Note the positive facial expression of Ronald and his body posture in the picture (doing a slight Hindi pose). &#8211; Try it yourself. <a href="http://www.mcdonaldsindia.com/">http://www.mcdonaldsindia.com/</a></em></p>
<p><em>~</em></p>
<p><a href="http://thetonguegetssharper.files.wordpress.com/2009/10/httpwww-mcdonalds-chdecompanyfaqs-4-136-htm.jpg"><img class="alignnone size-medium wp-image-134" title="Swiss Mac Image" src="http://thetonguegetssharper.files.wordpress.com/2009/10/httpwww-mcdonalds-chdecompanyfaqs-4-136-htm.jpg?w=300&#038;h=236" alt="Swiss Mac Image" width="300" height="236" /></a> vs. <a href="http://thetonguegetssharper.files.wordpress.com/2009/10/capture.jpg"><img class="alignnone size-medium wp-image-136" title="Indian Mac Image 2" src="http://thetonguegetssharper.files.wordpress.com/2009/10/capture.jpg?w=300&#038;h=182" alt="Indian Mac Image 2" width="300" height="182" /></a></p>
<p><em>Low Context (Individualism) vs. High Context (Collectivist)</em></p>
<p><a href="http://thetonguegetssharper.files.wordpress.com/2009/10/4.jpg"></a></p>
<p>Contrasts can be seen between the values that are portrayed along with the product. <em>(How these connect with those ideologies relevant to the target group culture.)</em> Values prevailing in HC cultures are generally tied to <strong>collectivism</strong> and those in LC cultures to <strong>individualism</strong>, hence, HC and LC culture websites display different values according to their ideologies.</p>
<p>Collectivist cultures tend to emphasize being in good physical shape and time spent with <strong>family</strong> and <strong>friends</strong> as their <span style="text-decoration:underline;">dominant values</span>, whereas the notion of freedom and personal time valued in individualist societies implies relaxation and time spent by oneself. As noted above, images of family time together are more prominent on HC websites than LC websites, whereas in LC countries <strong>individuals</strong> tend to be portrayed in situations such as an afternoon snack (<em>after/in between work probably</em>).</p>
<p>~</p>
<p><a href="http://elontirien.deviantart.com/art/Internet-University-Cast-120846620"><img class="alignnone size-large wp-image-143" title="Internet University Cast by elontirien" src="http://thetonguegetssharper.files.wordpress.com/2009/10/internet_university_cast_by_elontirien1.jpg?w=569&#038;h=158" alt="Internet University Cast by elontirien" width="569" height="158" /></a></p>
<p><a href="http://elontirien.deviantart.com/art/Internet-University-Cast-120846620"></a></p>
<p><a href="http://www.mcdonalds.ch/">http://www.mcdonalds.ch/</a> vs. <a href="http://mcdonaldsindia.net/index.htm">http://mcdonaldsindia.net/index.htm</a></p>
<p><em>Go onto the sites. You will understand better the layer-upon-layer look when looking at the sites in action.</em> The designers behind the Indian site seem keener on <strong>illustrations</strong> and links that constantly evolving into new ones, where parts of information are <span style="text-decoration:underline;">hidden underneath</span> other information on the same page. Their Swiss counterparts tile information side by side on one page, so that nothing covers anything else as a starting point. Users can find or get whatever information they want much more <strong>efficiently</strong>.</p>
<p><span style="text-decoration:underline;">Summary</span></p>
<p><strong>Non-verbal communication</strong> such as body language may represent itself on HC websites through imagery and animated effects on the website.</p>
<p>The <strong>collectivism/individualism</strong> variable is reflected in the values that are reflected in the imagery of the website, such as images of individuals versus images of groups (family), and in which the products are placed together with individuals/groups.</p>
<p>The <strong>time perception</strong> variable, which is tightly bound with the conscious thought patterns, is apparent in the navigation of the site. The transparency of the site reflects the user&#8217;s patience and willingness to explore the site to seek information.</p>
<p><a href="http://pakto.deviantart.com/art/west-vs-east-85546690"><img class="alignnone size-full wp-image-148" title="west vs east by pakto" src="http://thetonguegetssharper.files.wordpress.com/2009/10/west_vs_east_by_pakto.jpg?w=700" alt="west vs east by pakto"   /></a></p>
<p><em>What do you think? Where else have HC and LC cultures affected us? Which do you prefer &#8211; the &#8220;in your face&#8221; low context culture? Or the &#8220;I hope you geddit&#8221; high context culture? Which side are you on?</em></p>
<p>Sources: <a href="http://www.mcdonalds.ch/">http://www.mcdonalds.ch/</a> &amp; <a href="http://mcdonaldsindia.net/index.htm">http://mcdonaldsindia.net/index.htm</a></p>
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		<title>V &#8211; A committee is a group of people who individually can do nothing but together can decide that nothing can be done.</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[Sorry boys, this is not gonna be all about babes and booze. A fraternity is a social organization of men students at a college or university. And to join these fraternities, the potential members (pledgelings) have to go through trials to get into the fraternity; for example in this movie; from getting their butts signed by a stripper to placing a live [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=thetonguegetssharper.wordpress.com&amp;blog=9363941&amp;post=110&amp;subd=thetonguegetssharper&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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<p style="text-align:left;"><em>Sorry boys, this is not gonna be all about babes and booze.</em></p>
<p style="text-align:left;">A fraternity is a social organization of men students at a college or university. And to join these fraternities, the potential members (pledgelings) have to go through trials to get into the fraternity; for example in this movie; from getting their butts signed by a stripper to placing a live ostrich in an opposing fraternity house.</p>
<p style="text-align:left;"><img class="alignnone size-medium wp-image-118" title="The Question by dan-sch" src="http://thetonguegetssharper.files.wordpress.com/2009/10/the_question_by_dan_sch.jpg?w=258&#038;h=300" alt="The Question by dan-sch" width="258" height="300" /></p>
<p style="text-align:left;">The question is - <span style="text-decoration:underline;">Why does anyone want to go through all these humiliating or mindless tasks just to join a group?</span></p>
<p style="text-align:left;"><strong>Group Socialisation.</strong></p>
<p style="text-align:left;"><em>Whazzdat?</em></p>
<p style="text-align:left;">It is the situation where individuals (the pledgelings) are seeking to meet their needs, and in this case, <strong>to be more popular</strong>, by joining the &#8220;coolest fraternity on campus&#8221;.</p>
<p style="text-align:right;">Trenholm (2004) explains that a group is &#8220;&#8230; individuals who, as a result of interacting with one another over time, become interdependent, developing <span style="text-decoration:underline;">shared patterns</span> of <strong>behavior</strong> and a <strong>collective identity</strong>.&#8221;</p>
<p style="text-align:right;">This is evident in Fraternities and Sororities.</p>
<p style="text-align:left;"><a href="http://-coey-.deviantart.com/art/FrIeNdS-11945808"><img class="alignnone size-medium wp-image-119" title="Fraternity" src="http://thetonguegetssharper.files.wordpress.com/2009/10/friends__by__coey_.jpg?w=300&#038;h=225" alt="Fraternity" width="300" height="225" /></a></p>
<p style="text-align:left;">Another question you might ask would be &#8211; <span style="text-decoration:underline;">Why don&#8217;t the guys already in the fraternity think that they are going too far with the challenges and tasks they are making the pledgelings undertake?</span></p>
<p style="text-align:left;">That is the characteristic of being in a group. Individuals in a group have a <strong>shared behavioral standard</strong> and a <strong>collective identity</strong>. Another reason is that because they had already gone through these tasks before they were allowed membership, they believe it as a <strong>culture</strong> of being a frat-brother. This is the evaluation process as described by Moreland and Levine &#8211; there are several different stages to becoming a member of a group.</p>
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<div style="text-align:left;">Prospective member &#8211; stage where the individual analyzes the pros and cons of becoming a member of the group (whether it will benefit them)</div>
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<div style="text-align:left;">New member &#8211; the orientation stage or the transitional stage (the trials the members are tasked by the group to test whether they could assimilate into the culture)</div>
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<div style="text-align:left;">Full member &#8211; Pledge-brother <em>woohoo.</em> You will start to assume responsibilities for the group.</div>
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<div style="text-align:left;">Marginal member &#8211; Smaller role in the group</div>
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<div style="text-align:left;">Ex-member &#8211; Often when the student leaves the school, they will &#8220;pass the baton&#8221;</div>
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<p style="text-align:left;">Being inside the group, more often than not, there are obvious symptoms we can observe.</p>
<p style="text-align:left;">And in this movie, groupthink symptoms are clearly seen:</p>
<ul>
<li><strong>Illusion of invulnerability</strong> – In this case, being in “Beta house”, the individual will feel that they are the coolest guys around and that they could do anything (i.e. partying like there’s no tomorrow/stealing from opposing fraternity is deemed <em>OK</em>). It is somewhat like a false sense of security thinking that they are protected by own fraternity rules/laws and external rules do not apply (the real laws).</li>
<li><strong>Believe in group’s own morality</strong> – that their conduct, ethics are correct.</li>
<li><strong>Shared stereotypes</strong> – Not being in “Beta” equates to being <em>uncool</em>.</li>
<li><strong>Collective rationalization</strong> – that their actions are justified. On the pledge board, #42: Ship a pledge<strong> in a crate</strong> to Toronto. <em>As a bystander, what do you think? Mad or Cool?</em></li>
<li><strong>Self censorship</strong> – discerning what is acceptable or unacceptable</li>
<li><strong>Illusion of unanimity</strong> – because of groupthink, no one would stand out and say “Hey, I think what we are doing is wrong.” There is this false sense of having a complete agreement from everyone in the group for their behaviors and ways.</li>
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<p><em>How true it is that being in a fraternity will affect one’s own decisions? Will you still be <strong>YOU</strong>? Or will you turn out to be just like any another product of the frat-ory?</em></p>
<p>Source: <a href="http://www.americanpiemovie.com/">http://www.americanpiemovie.com/</a></p>
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		<description><![CDATA[ The Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind   I’m trying to be more relevant this time, this might get boring. If you have not seen this movie, I highly recommend it. For a relationship to even begin, there must be opportunity for contact, as described by the Relational Formation and Development theory. (Proximity) I&#8217;m going [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=thetonguegetssharper.wordpress.com&amp;blog=9363941&amp;post=84&amp;subd=thetonguegetssharper&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<h2> The Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind</h2>
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<p><em>I’m trying to be more relevant this time, this might get boring.</em></p>
<p><strong>If you have not seen this movie, I highly recommend it.</strong></p>
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<p>For a relationship to even begin, there must be <strong>opportunity</strong> for contact, as described by the Relational Formation and Development theory. (<em><strong>Proximity</strong></em>) I&#8217;m going to use the Knapp Model of Relational Development to show how the relationship of Joel Barish (Jim Carrey) and Clementine Kruczynski (Kate Winslet) develops. <em>Oh joy!</em></p>
<p> </p>
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<p>A man awakes dishevelled and impulsively, he skips work, heading instead to the shore. (<strong>Opportunity</strong>) On a chilly February day, a woman in orange, hair dyed blue, chats him up, she&#8217;s Clementine and the man&#8217;s Joel, shy and sad. By day&#8217;s end, he starts developing a liking for her. During the<strong> Initiation</strong> stage, it is the coming together of two individuals, constantly screening the opposite and Joel clearly displays this when him being very cautious and very conscious of his self-presentation. There&#8217;s also a slight crossing of the <strong>Experimentation</strong> stage &#8211; small talk on the train.</p>
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<p>The next night she takes him to the frozen Charles River. After, he drops her off; she asks to sleep at his place. In this scene, <strong>Experimentation</strong> (Stage 2), the couple starts to disclose more about themselves to each other over the phone and by the river. There is also <strong>Intensification</strong> (Stage 3) with the increased commitment to each other and wanting to share their personal spaces when Clementine asks to sleep at Joel&#8217;s place.</p>
<p style="text-align:center;"><a href="http://knotty82.deviantart.com/art/stages-of-courtship-76082364"><img class="size-medium wp-image-103 aligncenter" title="stages of courtship by knotty82" src="http://thetonguegetssharper.files.wordpress.com/2009/10/stages_of_courtship____by_knotty82.jpg?w=231&#038;h=300" alt="stages of courtship by knotty82" width="231" height="300" /></a></p>
<p><em>I&#8217;m going to skip some parts now, it might get a little confusing, ask me for the show if you&#8217;re really interested.</em></p>
<p>Here&#8217;s a short write-up to ease the transition.</p>
<p>Joel is stunned to discover that his girlfriend Clementine has had her memories of their tumultuous relationship erased. Out of desperation, he contracts the inventor of the process, Dr. Howard Mierzwaik, to have Clementine removed from his own memory. But as Joel&#8217;s memories progressively disappear, he begins to rediscover their earlier passion. From deep within the recesses of his brain, Joel attempts to escape the procedure.</p>
<p><em>Now these scenes are in Joel&#8217;s memory.</em></p>
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<p>The <strong>coming apart</strong> of the relationship based on Knapp&#8217;s Model of Relational Development are as follow &#8211; <strong>Differentiating</strong> (Communication and interaction marked by overt conflict), <strong>Circumscribing</strong> (Shrinking of relational interest and commitment), <strong>Stagnation</strong> (Alienation), <strong>Avoiding</strong> (Withdrawing physically and emotionally) and finally <strong>Termination</strong> (The breakup).</p>
<p>The point where Clementine decided to erase all her memory of her relationship with Joel would probably be at the <strong>Differentiating </strong>stage when they were constantly bickering and being the impulsive person she is, she went ahead with the procedure.</p>
<p><em>Recap.</em></p>
<p><span style="text-decoration:underline;">Coming Together</span></p>
<p>Stage 1: Initiating</p>
<p>Stage 2: Experimenting</p>
<p>Stage 3: Intensifying</p>
<p>Stage 4: Integrating</p>
<p>Stage 5: Bonding</p>
<p><span style="text-decoration:underline;">Coming apart</span></p>
<p>Stage 6: Differentiating</p>
<p>Stage 7: Circumscribing</p>
<p>Stage 8: Stagnating</p>
<p>Stage 9: Avoiding</p>
<p>Stage 10: Terminating</p>
<p>The stages are not linear though. As seen in this movie, Stages 4 (<em>The &#8220;We are together&#8221; whooptydoo-stage</em>) and 5 (<em>Engagement/Marriage</em>) are skipped. There wasn&#8217;t really a coming together of the couple and they were already at the coming apart stages.</p>
<p>Fret not; relationships do not always end at the <strong>Terminating</strong> stage. <em>Ha, relieved?</em> Relationships can regress or proceed through the stages, even skipping some.</p>
<p><em>Do you agree that relationships proceed through these stages? How would you create your opportunities say if you believe in the proximity concept? Which stage would you then realise that you&#8217;re in love? Love or Lust?</em></p>
<p><em>Whew. Hope you enjoyed this one.</em></p>
<p>Source: <a href="http://www.eternalsunshine.com/">http://www.eternalsunshine.com/</a></p>
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		<title>III &#8211;</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 25 Sep 2009 06:51:52 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Even heroes have the right to bleed. &#160; &#160; &#160; &#160; &#160; &#160; &#160; &#160; &#160; &#160; &#160; &#160; &#160; What do you interpret from this?    &#160; &#160; &#160; &#160; &#160;       Guess. &#160; &#160; &#160; &#160; &#160; &#160; &#160; &#160; &#160; Try. &#160; &#160; &#160; &#160; &#160; &#160; &#160; &#160; Give up? [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=thetonguegetssharper.wordpress.com&amp;blog=9363941&amp;post=58&amp;subd=thetonguegetssharper&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><span style="color:#ffffff;">Even heroes have the right to bleed.</span></p>
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<p><em>What do you interpret from this?</em></p>
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<p><em>Guess.</em></p>
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<p><em>Try.</em></p>
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<p><em>Give up?</em></p>
<p><img class="alignnone size-medium wp-image-61" title="love by princessambrosia" src="http://thetonguegetssharper.files.wordpress.com/2009/09/love_by_princessambrosia.jpg?w=300&#038;h=225" alt="love by princessambrosia" width="300" height="225" /></p>
<p><em>Keep staring. You&#8217;ll <strong>feel </strong>something.</em></p>
<p>Beautiful isn&#8217;t it?</p>
<p><em>That was easy</em>. If you&#8217;ve got Love/Sweet/ Beautiful, you&#8217;ve just got influenced by me. (: Now how about I tell you that &#8216;girl&#8217; is actually a dude? Not so sweet and beautiful anymore amIright?</p>
<p>See how words can just easily warp your perception?</p>
<p>Some of you have brought up that nonverbal cues are statistically proven that they play a bigger part during communications. I&#8217;ll have to disagree (though the statistics.). When there is no context, anything nonverbal can be interpreted as something else.</p>
<p><img class="alignnone size-medium wp-image-70" title="an emo boy by photographygogogo" src="http://thetonguegetssharper.files.wordpress.com/2009/09/an_emo_boy_by_photographygogogo.jpg?w=225&#038;h=300" alt="an emo boy by photographygogogo" width="225" height="300" /></p>
<p><em>Don&#8217;t worry emo boy. She loves you. With all those tell tale signs, you definitely got something there. Really.</em></p>
<p>There&#8217;s another thing about nonverbal communication, it being natural and hard to control, it&#8217;s very dependent on the receiver and how they interpret it. There is <strong>NO</strong> absolute certainty when interpreting verbal or the much more difficult nonverbal cues. Both are equally as important during communication. They are both part of a whole.</p>
<p><em>I know, I know, what about the avatars, personal biases. Let&#8217;s leave that for another day shall we?</em></p>
<p><em>Still following?</em></p>
<p>Let&#8217;s talk about first impressions. What do you look out for when you first meet a person?</p>
<p><img class="alignnone size-medium wp-image-62" title="voice by furafura" src="http://thetonguegetssharper.files.wordpress.com/2009/09/voice__by_furafura.jpg?w=231&#038;h=300" alt="voice by furafura" width="231" height="300" /> </p>
<p>Would it be their voice? Imagine Megan Fox with George Clooney&#8217;s voice, or Brad Pitt with Tyra Bank&#8217;s voice &#8211; you get the idea.</p>
<p><img title="physique by seasia777" src="http://thetonguegetssharper.files.wordpress.com/2009/09/physique_by_seasia777.jpg?w=200&#038;h=300" alt="physique by seasia777" width="200" height="300" /></p>
<p>Or would it be their physique? In all honesty, unless you&#8217;ve got the biggest sonofa ____, this shouldn&#8217;t be one of your criteria for attraction.</p>
<p><img title="False Appearance by Nickychan" src="http://thetonguegetssharper.files.wordpress.com/2009/09/false_appearance_by_nickychan.jpg?w=300&#038;h=257" alt="False Appearance by Nickychan" width="300" height="257" /></p>
<p>Appearance? This could easily be changed with a little bit of makeup or some surgery if <strong>he</strong> was really THAT unkind to you. False appearances &#8211; how would you judge then?</p>
<p><img class="alignnone size-medium wp-image-65" title="Walk walk walk by ShotgunxSerenade" src="http://thetonguegetssharper.files.wordpress.com/2009/09/walk_walk_walk_by_shotgunxserenade.jpg?w=300&#038;h=225" alt="Walk walk walk by ShotgunxSerenade" width="300" height="225" /></p>
<p>Their walk? Personally, I hate male prancers (I&#8217;m a dude.).</p>
<p><img class="alignnone size-medium wp-image-66" title="smile by Raisinka" src="http://thetonguegetssharper.files.wordpress.com/2009/09/smile_by_raisinka.jpg?w=225&#038;h=300" alt="smile by Raisinka" width="225" height="300" /></p>
<p>Their smile. Ah, my personal favourite.</p>
<p><img class="alignnone size-medium wp-image-67" title="eyes by beatqs" src="http://thetonguegetssharper.files.wordpress.com/2009/09/eyes_by_beatqs.jpg?w=273&#038;h=300" alt="eyes by beatqs" width="273" height="300" /></p>
<p>The eyes? Windows to the soul.</p>
<p><img class="alignnone size-medium wp-image-68" title="hair by lllx" src="http://thetonguegetssharper.files.wordpress.com/2009/09/hair_by_lllx.jpg?w=300&#038;h=185" alt="hair by lllx" width="300" height="185" /></p>
<p>Hair. Nothing kinky boys.</p>
<p><img class="alignnone size-medium wp-image-69" title="Aura by dojoh" src="http://thetonguegetssharper.files.wordpress.com/2009/09/aura_by_dojoh.jpg?w=300&#038;h=198" alt="Aura by dojoh" width="300" height="198" /></p>
<p>Or just their &#8216;aura&#8217;? In local language, their &#8220;seh&#8221;. (:</p>
<p>How would you judge then? Just because that person is lacking in one of those areas, you could already decide like &#8211; &#8220;Oh, he&#8217;s definitely not my type. I wouldn&#8217;t talk to him.&#8221; On what basis are you judging people? Your personal avatars? A little too quick to judge don&#8217;t you think? Even so, first impressions should not be the only impression.</p>
<p><em>Alright, I&#8217;ve been undervaluing nonverbal communication.</em></p>
<p>Not all things have to be said outright, and words can only mean so much. It&#8217;s the nonverbal part which helps amplify or convey the true meaning of words.</p>
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<p>An idiot can tell that they were both uncomfortable at the beginning (<em>that&#8217;s nonverbal communication at work, and some good acting &#8211; communicating to YOU!</em>). They both warmed up to each other gradually through smiles and glances (<em>again, nonverbal communication!</em>). These nonverbal codes are useful for giving us information about personal and relational topics we would be embarrassed to talk about, or  we find difficulty to describe verbally. Nonverbal communication is<strong> nonlinguistic</strong> and often contains <strong>representative behavior</strong>.</p>
<p>How often have people told you nonverbally what they will not tell you with words, and you have ignored those silent messages?</p>
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		<title>II &#8211; Action speaks louder than words but not nearly as often</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[I am king, hear me speak roar. Quack? We are only all too human. Verbal communication is the very basic of social interaction, but with the myriad of languages and cultures in the world, miscommunication may result from misinterpretation. That&#8217;s the boring stuff. Moving on. You&#8217;ve been suckered guys. Words can be used to manipulate the [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=thetonguegetssharper.wordpress.com&amp;blog=9363941&amp;post=33&amp;subd=thetonguegetssharper&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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<p><em>I am king, hear me <span style="text-decoration:line-through;">speak</span> roar.</em></p>
<p><em>Quack?</em></p>
<p>We are only all too human. Verbal communication is the very basic of social interaction, but with the myriad of languages and cultures in the world, miscommunication may result from misinterpretation.</p>
<p><strong>That&#8217;s the boring stuff. Moving on.</strong></p>
<p><img class="alignnone size-medium wp-image-37" title="Techn0 SuckeR by Innocent_raiN" src="http://thetonguegetssharper.files.wordpress.com/2009/09/techn0_sucker__by_innocent_rain.jpg?w=229&#038;h=300" alt="Techn0 SuckeR by Innocent_raiN" width="229" height="300" /></p>
<p><em>You&#8217;ve been suckered guys.</em></p>
<p>Words can be used to manipulate the thoughts of the person or just to deceive. Think sales people. I quote a friend, &#8220;When you&#8217;re purchasing cologne and you ask the salesperson what they think of the cologne on you, they&#8217;ll definitely say something like &#8211; oh you smell really sexy in it. That&#8217;ll boost your self-esteem and make you think hmm, she&#8217;s right, I think I should get this bottle.&#8221;</p>
<p>If a message supports current beliefes, attitudes, and values, we tend to find it compelling. If it enhances our sense of self-worth, we may accept it without question. Yet it is in exactly these situations that we should be wary. <strong>(Thinking Through Communication 5th Edition &#8211; Sarah Trenholm; page 57)</strong></p>
<p><img class="alignnone size-medium wp-image-40" title="Love is by Kelsea Kismet" src="http://thetonguegetssharper.files.wordpress.com/2009/09/love_is____by_kelsea_kismet.jpg?w=300&#038;h=300" alt="Love is by Kelsea Kismet" width="300" height="300" /></p>
<p>It&#8217;s not all gloom and doom with words though. What better way to express emotions but through words?</p>
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<p><em>The famous scene in Love Actually.</em></p>
<blockquote><p>Sometimes I find myself looking at your pictures over and over again. Sometimes I enjoy the feeling of missing you because then I know that I&#8217;m not a freak of nature. Sometimes I try to memorize the look on your face, the feel of your hands, the taste of your lips because I know the night is over too quickly and I will wake up without you. Sometimes I go to sleep looking at your texts, just so the night feels safer.</p></blockquote>
<blockquote><p>But sometimes it feels like there&#8217;s a huge weight sitting on the middle of my chest. Sometimes I fight the urge to buy a plane ticket with my savings and just leave everyone and everything behind, no explanations and no forwarding address. Sometimes I walk by the places where we used to sit and wonder where you&#8217;re sitting these days. Sometimes I repeat the saying &#8220;Action is the enemy of thought&#8221; in my head to keep me going, one foot in front of the other. Sometimes, some days, all I want to do is cry.</p></blockquote>
<p>How are you interpreting this?</p>
<p><img class="alignnone size-medium wp-image-42" title="Maya by sergio323" src="http://thetonguegetssharper.files.wordpress.com/2009/09/maya_by_sergio323.jpg?w=211&#038;h=300" alt="Maya by sergio323" width="211" height="300" /></p>
<p><em>Words mean more than what is set down on paper. It takes the human voice to infuse them with deeper meaning. </em></p>
<p><em><strong>Maya Angelou</strong></em></p>
<p>Well in other words, watch your words.</p>
<p>This will bring us to the other point of SELECTION. People choose what they <strong>want</strong> to hear or read and they&#8217;re already making judgements.</p>
<p><img class="alignnone size-medium wp-image-47" title="Crazy Girl by Freideugoi" src="http://thetonguegetssharper.files.wordpress.com/2009/09/crazy_girl_by_freideugoi.jpg?w=226&#038;h=300" alt="Crazy Girl by Freideugoi" width="226" height="300" /></p>
<p><em>You&#8217;ll go crazy.</em></p>
<p>There&#8217;s too much information going around in the environment for us to take in everything and process it at the same time. Our brain <em>(wonderful thing)</em>, sorts out what should be processed based on specific criterias (consciously or sub-consciously). Ranging from frequency, contrast, intensity, novelty to beliefs, preferences, motives, priorities, culture.</p>
<p><img class="alignnone size-medium wp-image-48" title="Brainburning by Davoo" src="http://thetonguegetssharper.files.wordpress.com/2009/09/brainburning_by_davoo.jpg?w=202&#038;h=300" alt="Brainburning by Davoo" width="202" height="300" /></p>
<p><em>Too much info &#8211; Brain burn.</em></p>
<p>In other words, we perceive what we want to take in, limiting our views on things. (<strong>omission</strong> *failure to select critical info, <strong>distortion</strong> *failure to prioritise important info or to select wrong info, <strong>oversimplification</strong> *selected salient info, failing to select significant info. <em>yawn</em>.)</p>
<p>What do you think? Do words lose their colour if used too often? Does clichés change your perception of words said or written? Are people coming to a conclusion too quickly?</p>
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		<title>I &#8211; The KOP</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 08 Sep 2009 11:15:16 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[No, don&#8217;t get ahead of yourselves Liverpuldians. I was referring to a different KOP.  &#38; KOP KOP!? GOOD COP?! BAD COP!?! The King of Pop. He looked so young. He&#8217;s been on the news so often recently that one must really be under a rock to be totally oblivious to what has been going on. Well for [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=thetonguegetssharper.wordpress.com&amp;blog=9363941&amp;post=8&amp;subd=thetonguegetssharper&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>No, don&#8217;t get ahead of yourselves Liverpuldians. I was referring to a different KOP.</p>
<p><img class="alignnone size-medium wp-image-17" title="KOP Liverpool" src="http://thetonguegetssharper.files.wordpress.com/2009/09/3508798121_f951012dc71.jpg?w=225&#038;h=300" alt="3508798121_f951012dc7" width="225" height="300" /> &amp; <img class="alignnone size-medium wp-image-18" title="michael-jackson-smooth-criminal-lean" src="http://thetonguegetssharper.files.wordpress.com/2009/09/michael-jackson-smooth-criminal-lean1.jpg?w=258&#038;h=300" alt="michael-jackson-smooth-criminal-lean" width="258" height="300" /></p>
<p><em>KOP KOP!? GOOD COP?! BAD COP!?!</em></p>
<p><span style="text-align:center; display: block;"><a href="http://thetonguegetssharper.wordpress.com/2009/09/08/i-the-kop/"><img src="http://img.youtube.com/vi/_fHoDWc22B0/2.jpg" alt="" /></a></span><br />
<em><strong>The</strong> King of Pop. He looked so young.</em></p>
<p>He&#8217;s been on the news so often recently that one must really be under a rock to be totally oblivious to what has been going on. Well for those who do <em>live under one</em> (<em>how are you online now anyway?</em>), Michael Jackson suffered cardiac arrest at his home in Holmby Hills Los Angeles, California on June 25, 2009. He was treated by paramedics at the scene, but was pronounced dead at the Ronald Reagan UCLA Medical Center.</p>
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<p style="text-align:center;"><em>Rest In Peace.</em></p>
<p>His death led to a crazy rush of information flooding the internet, a simple search for &#8220;Michael Jackson Death&#8221; will get you almost 2000 different sources. I was skeptical when I first heard the news too. Communication from the psychological perspective is the encoding and decoding of messages, and from the message passed on to me, I decoded it as another publicity stunt by advertisers to boost their television ratings. Miscommunication have occured here because of the mental set the receiver (me)  perceives. One moment I was told that Michael Jackson was going to make a comeback tour and the next thing I knew, I woke up blurry eyed and was told that the man was dead. Being distracted by a competing internal stimuli have caused this miscommunication.</p>
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<p style="text-align:center;"><em>Never in Neverland.</em></p>
<p>After that, media coverage of Michael Jackson surged. For a man whose last media &#8220;news&#8221; was in 2006 about his closure of Neverland Ranch due to financial problems, one would question the true intentions of the media. Tributes by other entertainers also started pouring in, most of whom have been faded to the back alleys of the entertainment industry. <em>The Game</em> a rapper debuted a tribute song &#8211; <em>Better On The Other Side</em>, on the day of Michael&#8217;s death, featuring vocals by other artistes such as <em>Diddy, Chris Brown, Polow da Don, Mario Winans, Usher, Boyz II Men</em>. Rapper <em>LL Cool J</em> wrote and recorded a song <em>Billie Jean Dream</em>. Rapper <em>Akon</em> did <em>Cry Out Of Joy</em>.</p>
<p style="text-align:center;"><em><img class="size-medium wp-image-21 aligncenter" title="Opportunity" src="http://thetonguegetssharper.files.wordpress.com/2009/09/3610863259_070878e13f.jpg?w=297&#038;h=237" alt="Opportunity" width="297" height="237" /></em></p>
<p><em>Kairos (καιρός) an ancient Greek word meaning the right or opportune moment (the supreme moment).</em></p>
<p>Call me skeptic, but I believe that these &#8220;<em>friends</em>&#8220; done the tributes knowing that they will gain public attention and maybe even use Michael&#8217;s death as a publicity platform.</p>
<p>What say you? Has there been too much media coverage of Michael Jackson death? Are people just making use of the opportune occasion to deliver their message?</p>
<p>Sources: <a href="http://www.cbsnews.com/stories/2009/07/06/entertainment/michaeljackson/main5137779.shtml">http://www.cbsnews.com/stories/2009/07/06/entertainment/michaeljackson/main5137779.shtml</a></p>
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		<title>0 &#8211; Hello world!</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 07 Sep 2009 11:10:40 +0000</pubDate>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Oh hi there! This is actually an assignment that is going to span over 8 weeks! Feel free to provide constructive comments! (:</p>
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